Q.What is Swinging


Swinging (sometimes referred to as the swing lifestyle or simply the lifestyle) refers to relationships in which the partners participate in some form of consensual non-monogamous sexual experiences. The overall concept of a swing lifestyle club or venue is to provide a safe place where everyone can act out their personal sexual fantasies. The exact fantasies are up to the person, but the hope is by providing a safe place those fantasies will be enacted and will grow into even more fulfilling sexual experiences.

Most on-premise (sexual activity can occur at the party location) lifestyle clubs and venues provide the opportunity to explore as much or as little of the lifestyle as each person is comfortable with. On-premise clubs and venues usually offer great DJs and popular bands playing music for dancing throughout the evening as well as venues (play areas) for varying degrees of sexual activity and social areas to talk. While not all couples attend the parties to share partners or play with others, many like to know there are many possibilities out there. Some are open to sharing intercourse with their partners and friends. Others will flirt and enjoy threesomes or sexual acts that do not include actual intercourse. The most important thing is to have open discussions with others that might be interested prior to initiating any play. Communication is a must in the lifestyle and this means not only between partners but also with others. It gives you the chance for sexual exploration for those who are open minded.

Q. Do we have to do anything?

Not at all, some want to be watched others want to watch. Some choose to just come and meet people, dance, and flirt. What you do is up to you and no one will ever force you to do anything you don't want. Your in control and No means No at all times.

Q. What is a Lifestyle Party?

Most lifestyle parties are social parties for couples and singles. They tend to dress up as they would for any downtown club or bar. However, at lifestyle functions we get to be a alot more daring and provocative – it’s a chance to wear that revealing outfit that isn’t quite appropriate for downtown. Many times the parties are themed – imagine the possibilities for Halloween!!! No one is ever required to wear specific clothes (nor any clothes in some play areas) but clothes shopping suddenly takes on a new dimension for everyone!

Each new experience and party will provide partners with ample avenues for discussion. Over time, relationships expand and grow as new fantasies are explored. Many times partners will change or adapt their boundaries over time through this discussion process.

The lifestyle means something different to each person. There is nothing any person ever has to do and no one should ever feel they MUST say yes to a play request. There are many couples that enjoy lifestyle friendships and social events especially the great dances, but do not participate in the sexual activities.

Q. What is the best night for new people?

We suggest coming on Friday the atmosphere is the same but more laid back.

Also the ages range from 21 to 35 on Friday NIght which is great for the younger crowds.

Q. What types of people attend?

All walks of life attend from blue collar all the way to professional. Ages range from 21 to 68 yrs old.

Q. What if I see someone I know?

Relax take a deep breath, they are here for the same reason you are, people in the lifestyle are very discrete.

Q. Why isn't there more photos?

We dont want to give away all the  fun ahead of time We want to make sure everyone's privacy is respected and we like to be discrete. Seeing R-Place in person is much better than any photo we promise.

Q. Isn't it just a giant orgy and everyone just touching everyone when you walk in?

A. No that is the misconception and misinformation given out by people who are uneducated about the lifestyle and have never attended any type of lifestyle party and make up stories and rumors that they pass around and exactly why we try to educate the public. Our parties give couples and singles an avenue to come meet others explore their fantasy and see if there is a connection or interest in a safe setting. After that its completely up to each person if they want to move to a more private setting.  Your rules must be followed and respected No means no and you never have to do anything you don't want. This is why we say you should always discuss your rules with your partner before ever attending and then stick to them.

Q. Can this save my bad marriage?

A. Unfortunately the answer is no in fact it could make it worse. The lifestyle is about basic principles, secure relationships, and designed to enhance healthy relationships. Counseling is what you seek. 

Q. I want to go but cant talk my partner into it.

This sometimes happens, don't push your partner give them time and room to think about it and do not go behind their back, that is the definition of cheating and is frowned upon in the lifestyle.

Q. How do we or I get on the guest list?

A. Send an email on our contact us page and we will contact you. If  you want to attend a party your email must be received no later than 6pm on the day of the party or you will not be screened until Monday so plan ahead and dont wait. We will no longer answer emails or requests during a party as it takes us away from enjoying the party ourselves! 

Q. What are Friday nights like?

A. Friday Nights are designed for new people and the younger crowds,   

Q. Are Single Males and Females welcome?

A. Of course and they do well here. We encourage you to send us an email to attend.

Q. Why do you screen people to attend and why do I have to give my name?

A. We do our best to protect our friends and we do search data bases to make sure sex offenders do not get in.

Q. How do I or We attend?

A. You must use the contact us form to request attendance, You cant just show up at the door  you will be turned away if your name is not on our list.